Essential French Politeness Formulas Part 1: The Basics

Why Politeness Formulas Matter

In French culture, politeness formulas are essential social markers that show respect and good manners. These expressions are used frequently and expected in daily interactions.

Basic Greetings

1. "Bonjour Madame/Monsieur" (Good day Sir/Madam)

• Used until evening
• Always include Madame/Monsieur for courtesy

2. "Bonsoir" (Good evening)

• Used after 6 PM approximately
• Shows awareness of time-appropriate greetings

Essential Thank You Expressions

1. "Merci beaucoup" (Thank you very much)

• Standard polite response
• Used for genuine appreciation

2. "Je vous en prie" (You're welcome)

• Formal response to thanks
• Shows elegance and consideration

3. "Merci, c'est très gentil" (Thank you, that's very kind)

• Acknowledges someone's kindness
• Adds warmth to simple thanks

Excuse Me Phrases

1. "Excusez-moi" (Excuse me - formal)

• Used before addressing strangers
• Shows respect when interrupting

2. "Pardon" (Excuse me - informal)

• Quick way to pass through crowds
• Used for minor incidents

Politeness in Requests

1. "S'il vous plaît" (Please - formal)

• Essential for any request
• Placed at end of sentence

2. "Je voudrais..." (I would like...)

• More polite than "Je veux" (I want)
• Standard for orders and requests

Common Courtesy Phrases

1. "Au revoir" (Goodbye)

• Never leave without saying it
• Used in all situations

2. "Bonne journée" (Have a good day)

• Added after Au revoir
• Shows extra thoughtfulness

Cultural Tips

• Always use "vous" (formal you) with strangers
• Greet shop staff when entering
• Say goodbye when leaving
• Combine phrases for extra politeness

In French culture, politeness isn't optional - it's a fundamental aspect of daily communication.